It's Just T-Ball

We had our first week of T-ball practice with our kids from Joshua Station. It was of course a chaotic event! When I started this team I just wanted the kids to have some fun in an environment that builds confidence. However, it didn’t occur to me that all of our kids rarely have the attention span needed for focusing on sports. This is not just from being children, but stems from having experienced things in their lives that little kids have no business experiencing.
A specific example that haunts me on many levels is a five-year-old little girl who I saw walking aimlessly in the middle of the field. She was supposed to be at a station practicing her throwing. Nonetheless, I invited her over to try batting, and noticed she was distracted. I said to her, “You need to focus on this, sweetie. You need to put your hands here, and here, then look at the ball and swing.”
She turned and looked me in the eye. “Coach, I know, but I can’t focus right now. I can’t stop thinking about my dad. I miss him. Even though I know that when he and my mom used to fight he’d hurt her awfully bad, I still miss him. I just can’t stop thinking about him. I can’t focus.” She continued a little longer, and I was taken aback by her incredible sense of awareness at such a young age. I heard a five-year-old child articulate pain within a broken family the same way I’ve heard a fifteen-year-old articulate pain where divorce was occurring.








